"Women and Motherhood"

by Vittal Koppal

[COLUMN: Adept's Pillar]

France's Justice Minister Ms. Rachida Dati, 42, unmarried intelligent women of France has now confirmed that she is expecting her first baby and refused to identify her partner.
Dati is working in the President "Sarkozy's cabinet.

For several months before he married Ms. Carla Bruni in February, his presidential consort was Dati. She accompanied him on official events including a state banquet at the White House. She has a great devotion for him. "Cherchez le pere" is the latest game in France; the object is to guess the "Man" who is responsible for the pregnancy? She honestly says: "My private life is complicated and I am keeping it off-limits to the media. I will not say anything about it".

Likewise, there are many women world over too, who are unmarried, even though they are around 40 years. It is not their fault; because, the present age demands lot of struggle and preparation for an educated woman to establish herself in the world successfully. At the time she has established herself, she will be running out of time to fulfill her "motherhood". What woman will undergo at the time when she is crossing her age of possible motherhood, no man can ever understand it.In between she may come in contact with many married or unmarried Men, whomsoever she may find herself attracted to.

With whom she may even have emotional or sexual relationships, what is wrong in it? It is quite natural and equally reasonable by any angle. "Motherhood" is a greatest moment in every woman's life.

Every woman by birth has that "Motherhood" instinct in their DNA.When we consider, women as the embodiment of Mother Earth;

"Earth is one, where as seeds are many"

This has been the basic building block of the "Nature" for the repopulation and regeneration of the life forms on our planet earth. "Motherhood should be treated as fundamental birthright of every women world over, either she may be married or unmarried.Women, should be given 'right to choose the seed of a man', of whose child she intendeds to become mother. Her opinion should be treated with respect and dignity.

This is what has happened in the times of "Mahabharata" also.

Kunthi, earlier to her marriage to an impotent king Pandu; She too had became pregnant, She also faced the same problem of to disclose the name of the father of her forthcoming child "Karna" to the world; so she has to sacrifice her motherhood and get rid of her newborn child "Karna" and let him go floating in the river 'Ganga' who later became the most powerful king of his time.Even after her marriage to the impotent king "Pandu" She has to copulate with five different "men" to fulfill her Motherhood instincts. The result was Five Pandavas, Dharma, Bhima, Arjuna, Nakula, and Sahadeva, born to five different fathers, however, to a single mother Kunthi.In turn those five Pandavas too married a single women "Droupadi".

Droupadi, too in turn had five extraordinary sons from each of the five Pandavas.To recognize the fathers of her sons, what she wisely did was she copulated with one Pandava until she became pregnant from his seed. Which later became popular as 'Pativrata dharma'; Pativrata Dharma means nothing but staying with one partner until she is pregnant of his child. But not staying with one man all her life... it is her private choice indeed.After giving birth to her first child from first Pandava: Dharma; she changed to another second Pandava: Bhima, and to the next and to the next so on and so forth. In this way she was allowed by the 'law maker' himself the lord Shri Krishna at her time to become mother of five sons even if she married to an impotent King Pandu. The reason, was to have sons of different DNA of having world's best quality, "Quality matters but not the quantity" where as "Gandhari wife of Drutharashtra, had 100 mediocre sons from one blind potent king.

The lord Shri Krishna himself also had relationships as many as 16,000, women who loved him dearly.

Likewise even lord Jesus is loved by millions of devoted nuns around the world today.

Both lords in their own way are quite popular in winning the hearts of women timelessly.

Today spiritually many young women world over find their 'soul mates' in lord Krishna and Lord Jesus accordingly... which no one objects, even if they are no more in the physical bodies... It does not matter to the women's heart. She could give her heart and soul to any man means it should be treated as the 'last and final' no one has any right to ask her on her selection simply because she is a woman; either spiritual or sexual partner it is her choice and life anyway.Now it is high time that such relationships should be treated as a legal and rightful relationship. Women should be given her natural birthright to become a mother world over ether they may be married or unmarried.

If she wishes to be a mother of a child, then nothing should come in between a women and her child.Proper government support should be provided unasked world over. Her Name as mother of her child should be treated as the true legal identification of a child, instead of the name of the Man, which may or may not be true; while admitting her child to educational institutes. Every child should be identified by the name of his mother, but not by the name of the father.Then only women could be said as 'liberated' in the real sense. Until then women are just shadows in the man's world without her true identity. There should be banks of "seeds" of successful men, made available to women to choose the seed for her motherhood; even artificial insemination should be made birthright of every woman, if she chose to be mother while remaining unmarried. Every pregnant woman (married or unmarried) should be treated with great care, respect and dignity all over the world.

Motherhood should become one of the dignified status and time of every women world over.

I request all women of the world over to support the "Unmarried Mothers" to live their life normally as any other married woman.

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